home for the holidays

[gekidazejanai]

This is the first time in years that I've actually been home for Obon. And it's Arashi's first time experiencing it, too. When I told her about praying at the shrine for dead relatives, she insisted that we also go pray for the red wolf pup that passed away last month. Only girl in the litter, and she died from a perforation in her small intestine, the poor thing. So I suppose I'll be paying respects to her, too.

Also, anyone interested in seeing some of the more nocturnal animals actually awake and active, Ueno is holding a night safari. You can go through on your own or with a guide, and I'll be there for about three hours starting at 7pm. Feel free to stop by and come through the safari, and if you're really lucky, the wolves might just sing for you. 

Comments

[kabajim]

I am sure her mother is well represented. I'm sorry if I brought up an uncomfortable topic.

[gekidazejanai]

Oh, no, you didn't at all. It was a pretty amicable split, and I still keep her up to date on Arashi and what she's up to. But I don't make excuses for why she's not in our lives, she can answer for that herself. But we're still friends.

[kabajim]

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[ooc: Kabaji wants to ask, but he doesn't want to impose. LOL]

[gekidazejanai]

Somehow I get the feeling you're curious about why we split up. Am I right?

[kabajim]

I'm sure it's none of my business. You don't have to tell me if you don't want to.

[ooc: Which is of course code for YES!]

[gekidazejanai]

She wasn't really ready to be a mom or settle down, the whole prospect scared her. So she took off, and surrendered all rights to Arashi, allowing me to be able to move her back here with me without a legal battle over the matter.

[kabajim]

Ah. You must miss her.

[gekidazejanai]

More for Arashi's sake than my own. I mean, I really wanted to hate her when she up and abandoned us, but that won't do anyone any good. We have a child together, I can't be bitter and rude to her without setting a bad example, after all. But I also realize that what we had never would have lasted even if she had stuck around.

[kabajim]

Ah. So, no torch then?

[gekidazejanai]

Not even a spark.

[kabajim]

...usu.

[ooc: Kabaji feels hopeful :D]

[gekidazejanai]

What about you? Any special someone in your life?

[kabajim]

Me? No, of course not. I've been busy with work. No one wants to date a male kindergarten teacher.

[gekidazejanai]

Seriously? You'd think you'd be beating girls off with a stick once they knew how good you are with kids.

[kabajim]

Girls...no.

[gekidazejanai]

Guys, then?

[kabajim]

....usu.

Not, not that I have any!

[gekidazejanai]

Really? A great guy like you? I'm really surprised no one has seen what a catch you'd be.